​“Despite being told that it can be by modern self-help pop psychology, our inner critic can never be overwritten by any kind of positive mentalized positionality:
it is only possible to heal it away by learning to discover, and then with help emotively process, the hidden themes of our unconscious self-shame.”

​“I knew I’d finally begun to heal a critical existential wound pattern the day I
finally stopped first experiencing people as not possessing what I have in consciousness and started experiencing them as possessing what I don’t.”

“We can’t ever permanently change anything about ourselves we don’t first learn to emotively accept.”

​“Shame is an emotion as what we diagnose as deep character flaws; guilt is an energetic in how shame about our flaws cause us to do things we then regret;
and embarrassment is how we fear others negatively judge us for the things
we feel guilty about doing: until we emotively process all three in reverse
order of their genesis, we will never learn to self-accept and self-affirm.”

“It is impossible for us to say something some part of us did not mean: ‘I didn’t mean that’ is a self-irresponsible attempt to disown the part of us that exactly meant what it said, and so never be able to find and heal the reason why that part meant it so deeply.” 

“We can only ever be insulted by something that illuminates what we already fear is really true about ourselves.”

“Attaining a state of self-Love is impossible; the closest we can get is
to learn to embody a state of emotively mature self-goodness.”

“You have to be lost before you can ever be found; and the deeper the lostness you emotively heal, the deeper the foundness will find you.”

“Just because my mental body’s main function is to help give me the incredible gift of realizing that I exist, does not mean that it creates the fact that I exist, or is the only reason I do.“

“Language is only an abstraction of our thought; thought is only an abstraction of our experience; and experience only an abstraction of our essential emotivity.”