"So obvious that it is almost always missed, an outsized ego broadcasts for all to see its real truth as a wound-based compensatory cover for a deeply insecure tiny ego.”

“The root childhood wounding that must be healed to experience noncodependent intimacy comes from how we had to serve our own parents’ counter-transferential need of love from us as children in order to receive love from them, causing us to trust neither Love or Other.” 

“Maslowian-based self-actualization only moves us energetically from childhood to teenhood; only emotive-based self-authentication finally emotively moves us from teenhood to adulthood.”

​“Anyone who ever says ‘I didn’t make the rules, I only play the game’
 to justify adding their own personal contribution to the ocean of greed,
apathy, and egotism in our world consciousness is directly broad-
casting their desire to never learn to be heartful, healed, and whole.”

​“Feelings are to real emotions as a lamp is to current; and real emotions
are to core emotives as current is to electromagnetism: unless your healing paradigm makes and therapeutically applies these distinctions, you will never heal inner wounding, only learn to mentally and energetically better cope with it.”

“We can all certainly give love while carrying unhealed childhood wounding, but none of us can ever vulnerably and authentically receive love with unconscious defenses in place.”  

​“Real truth does not care what we believe any more
than the sun cares about us getting a sunburn.”