“We can’t ever permanently change anything about ourselves we don’t first learn to emotively accept.”

“Polyamory, modern tantra, and all of their paradigmatic cousins that extol casual sexual behavior only draw teen-level consciousnesses unconsciously terrified of closeness and intimacy in the name of social or spiritual sophistication, and so use them as insurance policies to avoid the risks of rejection inherent to deep committed bond.”

​“Shame is an emotion as what we diagnose as deep character flaws; guilt is an energetic in how shame about our flaws cause us to do things we then regret;
and embarrassment is how we fear others negatively judge us for the things
we feel guilty about doing: until we emotively process all three in reverse
order of their genesis, we will never learn to self-accept and self-affirm.”

 “Edenity gives people a chance to experience their soul by differentiating their energetic, mental, and willful-conditioned version of self from their root emotive-based soulfulness, and in that way spiritualize the personal, not transcend, dissolve, or shame it in the name of what we call consciousness growth.”

“What we’ve tragically been conditioned to as unconditional love by psychologically-challenged religious paradigms is a only drug givable or receivable by emotionally immature adults still in thrall to wounds engendered from the lack of real heart nourishment in childhood.” 

"​You can’t actually love yourself, because as a holon in the Wholon you are too busy primarily being made of Love itself to make a secondary action of it and turn it back to yourself; and the only way to experience yourself as Love is to
learn to heal away conscious or unconscious self-judgment enough to attain
an unerasable sense of self-goodness through which that Love can flow.”